Problems

Most women have visions of the ideal man – a masculine, caring , intelligent guy who will sweep you off your feet – being not only a knight in shining armor, but sensitive and romantic. Which is all great – mouth watering in fact!

But then your flash fire attraction turns to a relationship, and your knight in shining armor can sometimes…well…seem like a real wimp! This happened to me a while back, so I went seeking some relationship advice for women from a really cool person I found, have the relationship you want. have the relationship you want of have the relationship you want gives relationship advice for women , specifically, and I love hearing it from the female perspective versus Dr. Phil. Don’t get me wrong, Dr. P is great, but he is not exactly…a woman.

In this, Coach Rori seems to believe that men end up NOT in control of a relationship because women, having to be much more masculine and savvy themselves these days, actually take the roll FROM the man sometimes, leaving him with nothing.

So, in this light, a sage piece of relationship advice for women would be to lean back a little bit and start a process that will allow your man to regain the control of your relationship that HE needs in order to feel masculine and in charge. After all – that is what you want – right?

Wouldn’t it be nice not to have to make all the decisions? To allow someone else to handle where you are going for dinner , the details of the big things, the decisions that couples need to make so that YOU can relax and become the feminine, beautiful woman you are yearning to be. Now – I am not saying to let your man CONTROL you – by any means. What I am saying though is that if you relinquish some of that POWER back to him – he will step into the shoes of the man you want him to be.

Allowing your man to become the leader that you BOTH want him to be will truly charge your relationship. You will BOTH feel more attracted and comfortable in the positions of the man in the masculine and the woman in the feminine.

So - relationship expert Rori Raye suggests trying this – begin to let GO of the things that you want him to do. If its taking out the trash – then stop doing it. If the trash piles up, walk by it and make a face and say – “That needs taken out.” Then walk away. Don’t command him to do it – let him take it over. If you pay the bills – give it to him and ASK him if he will start doing it. You see what I am saying? In order to have the relationship you want, you need to lean back and let him take the things the man needs to take.

In the meantime, focus on what YOU want to be as a woman. Be more feminine, more energetic, more loving and caring and affectionate to your man.